January 2, 2025

It’s a new year, and maybe you’re thinking about those things you’d like to do differently or achieve this time around. But if the idea of “goal planning” makes your eyes glaze over or gives you anxiety, don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here’s the simple truth: planning your goals is like creating a roadmap to where you want to go. And who doesn’t love a good road trip?

Where Do You Want to Go?

First things first, think about what truly matters to you. What would make you feel happier or more fulfilled? This could be anything from starting that new savings account, learning a new skill, finally writing that book, getting in better shape, or simply stressing less. No dream is too big or too small!

Make Your Goals Real

Now, let’s turn those dreams into real goals. Here’s the trick:

• Be Specific: Instead of “get healthy,” think “walk for 30 minutes three times a week.”
• Keep it Measurable: How will you know you’ve reached your goal? “Lose 10 pounds” or “save $500” are good examples.
• Make Sure it’s Doable: Start with something you can actually achieve, this way you can easily make progress without getting discouraged. You can always aim higher later!
• Keep it Relevant: Does this goal truly matter to you? It’s your life, your goals!
• Set a Timeframe: Give yourself a deadline, like “by the end of June” or “within the next three months.”

Staying on Track (Without Losing Your Mind)

Okay, you’ve got your goals, now how do you actually stick with them? Here are some ideas:

• Visualize Your Success: Imagine looking at your banking app and seeing that healthy account balance or looking in the mirror and having the shape you’ve always wanted! How does it feel? Keeping this in the forefront of your mind is key to staying on track.
• Find a Cheerleader: Tell a friend about your goals and ask them to keep you accountable, if you’re not comfortable telling anyone just yet- write it down and make sure to look at it frequently.
• Treat Yourself (Responsibly!): When you reach a milestone, celebrate! Maybe a small gift, a night out, or that book you’ve been wanting.
• Check In and Adjust: Life happens! It’s okay to re-evaluate your goals and make changes along the way.

 

Don’t Forget You!

Here’s a secret weapon for achieving your goals: take care of yourself. Make time for things you enjoy, learn to say “no” sometimes, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.

Planning for the Whole Year (One Step at a Time)

Goal planning isn’t just for January 1st! You can set new goals any time of year. The important thing is to be patient with yourself, celebrate your wins, and remember that it’s okay to stumble as long as you get back up. That fact that you’re even reading this is a huge step forward that most people struggle to even take.

Milestones: Your Roadmap to Success

Think of milestones like rest stops on your road trip. They break down the journey into smaller, manageable chunks. Any progress is a step forward in-turn moving you ever closer to your final goal. For example, if your goal is to run a 5K, your milestones might be:

• Week 1: Run for 15 minutes without stopping
• Week 4: Run for 30 minutes without stopping
• Week 8: Complete a 5K walk/run

It’s Okay to Take a Detour

Didn’t hit your goal this month? That’s okay! It happens to the best of us. Take a deep breath, figure out what you can learn from it, and keep going. You’ve got this!

Need a Co-Pilot?

Remember, you don’t have to go it alone. Talk to a friend, family member, or even a therapist if you need some extra support. Everyone needs a little help sometimes.

You’re the Driver of Your Life

Goal planning is all about taking charge of your life and creating the future you want. So buckle up, enjoy the ride, and remember to celebrate every milestone along the way!

Feeling Stuck? It’s Okay to Ask for Directions

Sometimes, even with the best roadmap, we can still feel lost or overwhelmed. If you’re struggling to reach your goals or just feeling stuck, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional can make a world of difference. Think of it like asking for directions – it doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it just means you’re smart enough to find the best route to your destination.

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